
So imagine my surprise yesterday when here, at my birthday gathering/celebration, one of my many cousins reached over to the computer and found “Flightless Bird, American Mouth” to play. It had been so long since her and I had even discussed real, meaningful subjects on life and still, she had no reservations when saying that this will be the song she dances to on her wedding night. When I first heard this song, which is the closer here, I always assumed it was about the sad state America lives in, referred as a fat cat who knows he’s the ‘top dog’ but still, views the world from the misty view that there is nothing he can do to overcome it all. She shared that she feels it reflecting the moment where it finally hits you how amazing it is to find that special person that you simply, cannot live without and not just that but, knowing that they can’t live without you, when you yourself see yourself as nothing. That’s where he asks if he actually found his bird, flightless and all, and realizes that yes, she/he is hers/his. The lyrics are everything, here is one with the words included:
And it got me thinking about so many different things in life. How we have people in our lives who we will forever have a strong physical bond with (she is my aunt’s daughter, my mom’s sister, in very literal terms) and yet, we don’t really know them. We talked a lot and I found out that I have an amazing cousin that I need to really talk to more and that family is everything. And while we were here, mostly close friends and family (modest, I hope), it was great knowing that we can all get together, celebrate and rejoice in each other’s company. Thanks to everyone who made it that much more special – even after the rain poured for 30 minutes, even after the meat ran out, even after the beer ran out, even after the friends and cousins left and I was left here alone – it means a lot. Check out my beautiful cake, gifted from another cousin who brought it from the goodness of her heart.

And oh yeah, Spain won. Hoo-ray! – Bryan
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